Sunday, March 22, 2009

Seeing Red: Twilight Tortures

With appendicitis in the air, and living with my brother for the time being, I am utterly at the mercy of my well-meaning nieces. So when they suggested a Twilight screening, my only options were to either:

a)agree to watch but fake sleep through it or;
b)run and hide where they cannot find me (difficult when my top speed is roughly 1 step/2 second)

Needless to say, by the time I made up my mind (B), the DVD has already been popped in,the cookies and milk were a-laying and bloody Edward Cullen was trying to stare his way through the screen.

The first time I had to watch it when it was first released, I believe I went in with an open mind. I also went through the nationwide hunt for books 1-4 with pretty good graces. But I'll be damned if I had to sit through another torture session of Mr. Cullen and his posse keeping the movie going with supposed good looks* and molten stares and rubbish Sweet Valley High dialogue mixed with some fangs.

I behaved myself with my nieces of course but whenever Bella started spouting "I want to be with you forever" or the "Never leave my side", I wanted to throw my milo mug at the screen and yelling "What about your life bitch?! No one can get a BA in Love!"

Edward, all 300 years of him with the physical age of 17 was hardly any better. "I've waited all my life for you," says he, "Vomit," says I.

Real people don't talk like that. And if they do,they are:

a)drunk
b)trying to get laid
c)all of the above.

I should have ripped that DVD from the player and burn all the twilight booksI can get my hands on...
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... I really need to get back to work. This is not healthy.

*okay, Alice is pretty cute. Did you see her wind up to pitch the baseball?

Saturday, March 21, 2009

Small scrapes

As part of my 'pick-myself-up-from-appendicitis' efforts, I've been seriously thinking about the macbook. What? Don't you judge me. I'm hurt and material things lubricate the getting better process.

So today I gave in a little and went to klcc after my check-up, just to take a look at it again. I should have prepared. myself better against the temptations at Machines. I got sidetracked the minute I hobbled into the store - the Macbook Air (1st gen) was being sold off at a ridiculous price!

The commercials were true; that baby weighs about 3 pounds (who needs a disc drive in this day and age anyway?) and thin enough to slip into a manila envelope.

In fact, the evil salesman did give me a faux manila envelope and I happily carried the Macbook Air around the store in my efforts to convince myself to get it. Until I realized I was acting like a total twat and that if I weren't me, I'd hate me.

I admit, I was very tempted. But I managed to slink out the store, with wallet almost intact - I gave up the air and got myself Mursed as a trade-off. But that's a story for another day.

Score:
Me: 0.5, Temptation: 0.5


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Thursday, March 19, 2009

It's not a hospital...

Its hotel+hospital=hospitel
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Small comforts

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Wednesday, March 18, 2009

Appendix

Got admitted to the hospital yesterday for appendicitis-i swear I flet like dying from pain in the stomach.

Operation was last night as well. The OT(terms I picked up from scrubs were very helpful) is one of the most scariest places to be in. Big lights, the smell of whatever it is, the masked doctors, nurses.

Its all good now. Am very restless. Walking around in by ass showing gown later.


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Friday, March 13, 2009

Bangkok Visit - The Sex Pitch: Economics of a titty-bar

Was in Bangkok sometime back for a Bachelor's trip. [coverline]After the usual tom yam & green curry meals and temple visits and boat rides and elephant rides, we decided to go to a club. 'Lo & Behold, we were tricked into entering a titty-bar! [/coverline]
 
So ahem, back to the point at hand; the economics of a titty-bar. The first time I was dragged to one was when I was in Madrid. There, the drinks were not so cheap and the women even less so. Same deal for the one in Bangkok. It was a weird feeling going in, like visiting a home you had vacated years ago, and finding it now alive, in Bangkok somehow and with strangely-lit furniture. All these bars are essentially the same though, be it in Europe or Asia - The elevated stage, the poles, the shaped lighting, the faux leather upholstery, the smell of airconditioned perspiration and cheap cologne.

To pass the time, I found myself thinking about the economics of the place, and wondering how things had changed since I had last bothered to look. For the uninitiated: your average night club's profits revolve around ladies' drinks, which male guests buy for them in exchange for a chunk of their time, usually an hour's worth. This 60-minute window will usually include just enough fondling and titillating conversation to guarantee another drink, and a third after that. The girls are paid by the number of drinks their guests buy for them, you see. Their cut is usually around 25% of gross, which in real terms means they make about 100baht per hour in a mid-range club like the one we were in. On a really good night (i.e., if they work a full 8 or 9 hours), they make a little under a grand for their trouble, excluding tips. On average though, it's more like 400-500bahts.

What complicates things is that the girls need to convince their guest to buy them a drink first. The sales pitch itself takes time, and usually includes some pre-payment groping to expedite matters. I was pleasantly surprised last night to find that the standard spiel was still there, even after all this time.

It goes thusly (and I swear to god this is probably in some training manual somewhere):

  1. Shake hand of guest, or kiss guest on cheek (which rationally, you need to avoid like the plague).
  2. Ask guest's name, then introduce yourself. (Khap pun kha...whats your name sir)
  3. If it looks like it's the guest's first time, confirm it.(First time sir?)
  4. The guest will answer in the affirmative, usually followed by some explanation. The most common is: (We just wanted to try it.)
    My answer was "I didn't even know we were going here! Honest!"
  5. The next two questions are interchangeable. Either they ask your age, or where you work. (" You work in Bangkok Sir?" or "How old are you Sir?")
    I've seen a few guys use the age question as an opportunity to pull off a quasi-icebreaker, and answer ("Guess.") The girls have probably heard this trick so many times that they've got canned responses ready for this as well. Usually they'll make a playful game out of alternately guessing, or teasing the answer out of you. I got the work question instead, to which I replied, "No, no just a holiday")

The initial script usually ends there. If the guest isn't into her, the girl needs to either get creative, or move on. These exchanges require some measure of mutual interest, after all. That said, there are also a handful of straplines that they throw around in the middle of the conversation, exempli gratia:

"I've been working here less than a day/week/month"
I've heard this one so many times that I wonder if there are any veterans in this industry at all. (There are, but they usually turn into floor managers or mama sans.) I imagine they use this line to make it appear as if they are new and therefore, innocent, and therefore, gullible, and therefore, worth exploring further.

"I'm just putting myself through college"
I love this one, because it pulls on your heartstrings and it's inspiring. Who wouldn't want to buy a girl a drink, after all, if she was channeling that money into her education?

I got an earful of these and other standard lines of dialogue from the first girl who sat beside me. After about 15 minutes of fairly neutral responses from her audience, she gave up and walked off, leaving me to my drink and my drunken friend who was using me to prop himself up.

What I like about this particular club (at least, if I were in that kind of mood) is how the floor managers were orchestrating things behind the scenes. It's the FM's job to move the inventory in the most efficient manner possible, so they'll generally throw the unpopular girls at you first. Kinda like old fish at the wet market.

Girl #2 appeared next to me within a minute of Girl #1 leaving. This one was only mildly more interesting than the first, and since I honestly hope we had no intention of having more than a few drinks at this place, she didn't make much headway either. After No. 2 gave up, a top-tier girl took her place. This one apparently decided I was a lost cause and worked on my buddy. Also apparently, the couch wasn't comfortable enough for her and decided to sit on his lap instead. No more boring dialogue, just lots of vigorous gyration and heavy breathing. Like an erotic elevator pitch, this girl had distilled her craft down to its most pure form, and from a technical perspective, I don't think a more compelling way exists to sell a guy on something.

I suppose we should've bought her a drink on pure principle: I don't believe honest effort should go unrewarded, after all. But we were leaving and thankfully I never had to cross that particular line.
 
Another thing I like about this place: all of the girls say goodbye to you as you leave. I mean, I knew they were all cursing under the breath for having wasted their time with me, but hell, you can't win every pitch.
 
*It was called Super-Titty if anyone's interested

Tuesday, March 10, 2009

Start them young.

I did a sheepwoman today, gave a lecture to a packed class at my old uni. It was funny having the lecturers sit back and I was in front giving a talk on my thoughts on advertising. Reality check went on constantly.

It was a fun session though, the hour talk (I talked for 60 whole minutes!), the Q&A, the feel good feeling of corrupting young minds. Maybe it won't be something I'd do for life (stories on marking term papers still gives me the chills) but maybe once in awhile? Won't kick that idea out of bed just yet.

One thing's for sure, smarty-pants students irritate me. There was this one guy who particularly got on my goat. As I was driving back, I realised why it was so. He reminded me too much of myself.



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